A., I struggled for 5 years to have a baby, and my sister gave me a wonderful shower. Then after that sister tried for 5 years she had a baby, and I gave her a shower. This will mean soooh much to your sister, especially if this may/may not end up being her last pregnancy. I themed my sister's shower as "Under Construction." We knew she was having a boy, so I used dollar store dump trucks for holding all different kinds of candies like M&M's, chocolate chips, red hots, sweet tarts, etc. I got Tonka truck tablecloths from a nearby party store. And had road construction signs hanging above the gift table. Tonka truck birthday plates, napkins, and cups. Also, had Meijer make a tonka truck cake, complete with a plastic truck on top, pushing dirt around. I used legos, building blocks, and such as decorations also, and since I knew the name of the baby, I turned the alphabet blocks into his name as a pyramid by the cake. I made a Black Bean Advacado Salsa, and Tostitoes, mints, peanuts, punch, and my SIL helped to bring a fruit tree (toothpicks with individual fruits on a cone shaped tree). I copied off all those games that the older people like to do, and just left them on the table for their enjoyment....crossword puzzles, word searches, etc. Then I played the ever popular BINGO with baby items on it. Yes, and gave small gifts for winners, with each time a gift for my sister at the same time. But, the most fun game we played was Baby Pictionary. I had a huge pad of paper up, and two teams took turns guessing at what one of thier team was drawing. You need an music stand or something to prop up the paper. I also decided to make a list of all the people I had invited ahead of time, with a space to write what they got my sister. That way, everyone was accounted for, and I didn't have to write their names down again.
I also gave my SIL a shower. I did a game where I put a baby word on the backs of each person. They had to go around and ask yes/no questions to guess what what on their backs. Funny, and a great ice breaker.
J.