J.P.
People always ask me, "What about the socialization?"
My reponse is, "You say that like it's a good thing. Have you seen how kids treat each other and how disrespectful they are to adults?"
We have very intelligent children and my almost 9 year old is scary smart. We pulled him from school after kindergarten and he loves it. We belong to 2 homeschool groups, so that we get interaction with a myriad of different people and choose who we hang with, rather than being forced to hang with the same people all of the time.
I run a business that requires me to be there and my husband runs it with me, so we work 4 half days and I do most of the homeschooling. This year, my 8 year old is in 5th grade (only because we slowed him down a bit, in case he ever wants to go back to school, I don't know about him and older, more forward girls.) He is taking a writing class from an amazing writer, who homeschooled her own 4 boys, and he loves it.
http://www.excellenceinwriting.com/
We have park days with the other kids 3 days each month, assemblies, mom's night out, field trips (which we did one yesterday that I think my husband and I got more out of than the kids did - things I didn't learn in history class, but should have!), specific activities for the high schoolers, etc.
No longer are the years of Homeschoolers who were rare and hid from society. We now have about 2 million people who are homeschooled in the US alone....and we are socialized, in a good way. LOL
More and more people are seeing how brainwashed we have been, thinking that teachers are the only ones who can educate our children. Who can teach your child better than you? You know how they learn and EVERY moment is a teachable moment that we seize.
Home Learning Year by Year helps you figure things out, but we download the state's (pathetically low) education standards each year from the state's government website and just make sure we hit all of their points....well, most of them. Our 1st grade son was not interested in dancing with ribbons, so we skipped that part. LOL
You will be shocked how easy it is to educate your child AND how much more time you have with them. No PTA junk, no massive amounts of fundraising flyers, no excessive busy work called homework, no parent teacher meetings, no mandatory classroom volunterring, etc. Oh yeah, and no school traffic!
What did it for me was reading research about compulsory school and the average child gets 2 hours and 13 minutes of instruction time each day! What do they do all day? Why are they coming home with 3 hours of homework? I don't want to fight over homework, when I could be playing and bonding with my child.
Definitely get a membership to the wwww.HSLDA.org For updates on laws, but more importantly, they are your private attorneys if anything homeschool related comes up.
Good luck and enjoy your kids!