I totally agree with Mommydoodle -- I'm still looking for a good thermometer, too. I also won't do rectal and can't get my daughter to hold a digital under-the-tongue one in the right spot for enough time (although we're working on that). We tried the ear thermometer, but in my experience you've gotta get that "just right" -- and after a particularly bad ear infection my daughter won't let us near her with that anymore. So I got the temporal artery one -- with ours you have to swipe it across the forehead. At first I liked it, but it really does have to be "just right" which is hard to do on another person, I've found. With a wiggling toddler, it's hard to do the swipe without letting a little air underneath, which makes the reading inaccurate. Then last fall when my daughter was sick, even when I tried repeatedly and got a perfect swipe, I thought my daughter had a fever for over a week so took her to the doctor where they informed me, no she doesn't have a fever. So, as per the directions, I cleaned it with alcohol. But the readings remained the same -- with our temporal artery thermometer she had a fever, at the doctor's office she did not. So I'm frustrated with our options for thermometers, too. Now I just go by the glassiness of her eyes and her mood -- so scientific! And as I mentioned, I'm working on having her hold a digital one under her tongue -- so far I've tried distraction with TV and bribery to get her to hold it in the right place, with improving results :o) All of these, by the way, could be used for kids and adults. And sorry this probably doesn't help much -- it's more of a vent for me!