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I'm sure you're right about her energy level having a lot to do with it. Next time try acknowledging what she wants. Simply say "I'll bet you really wanted to play in the sink didn't you?" Depending on her response you might want to follow up with trying to reach a solution together - "It's bed time now, but would you like to help mommy wash dishes tomorrow (or splash in the bath or whatever)" if she's too worked up you could always come down to her level and ask for a hug - if she refuses say ok, I'll be waiting when you're ready. This is not 'rewarding' her behavior but letter her know you understand. At 17 months she is having a tantrum to communicate with you. You mentioned in you post she doesn't understand many words, but at her age she really is understanding a lot more than she can verbalize.
It sounds simple enough but it's amazing how well it works. Stops my 13 month old in his tracks every time.