Hello! My husband is the same way...it's is very rare that he hears my daughter if she wakes up in the middle of the night. Luckily it hasn't happened in a long time, BUT if she was waking up several time, I would ask my husband for help for sure! Just say you need help, he should understand. Mommy's hear everything..it's true!! I'm sorry your daughter is waking up, but if it is her tooth coming in, give her some tylenol and maybe that will help her sleep. She is probably waking up because her poor little gums hurt! If it seems like she's starting a pattern, wait a little bit before going in and maybe she will put herself back to sleep....she may be getting use to you going in and just wants you. Good luck with everything!