M.M.
Hi E.,
Have you tried the frozen rings? They are like popsicles wrapped in plastic. You buy them in the regular baby toy isle (like at Target) and they are room temp - just pop in the freezer. They are cheap, and they worked well for us - we never tried Orajel. Plus, we just used good old fashioned Ibuprofen for pain - it lasts way longer than Tylenol, not messy and gives a lot of relief. But - some mom's don't like giving medications that early. And that is fine!
Also - keep your "coolness!!" I'm 34 and I say groovy and nifty. When you turn 30, you won't care what people think anyway!! So - dont' worry about all the other mom's - just worry about being happy with you!
Good luck!