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I have a 4th grader and a 7th greader. Earlier this yea my 4th grader felt very picked on by her teacher. After her complaining for several weeks I finally contacted her teacher and after a long discussion and talking about ways I htoought would work better with my child in getting her to listen ( she apparently was constantly talking in class) things have been much better. There were a few things that I stood firm on though. The teacher was elling her that she would fail the 4th grade becasue she couldn't keep quiet, which my daughter knew was an empty threat becasue her grades are straight A's. I suggested that she come up with a threat that she could actually follow through with such as sending my child to the principal. My advise would be to not thretened with anyting that you can't actually make happen. 6th graders can be tough. Not sure what your planning to do but I'm thinking something positive for doing the work and paying attention would work better than going the route of punishing for things that aren;t done. Good luck!