Hi S.,
My son missed the kindergarten deadline by 2 weeks. I felt better about teaching him at home instead of having him in a 5-day preK program and I am so glad I made that choice! This has been a special year for us. Mothers of older boys tell me not to rush and that boys especially need more time at home with their moms.
Calvin adn I go to the library once a week and read together a lot. One of the best ways to prepare a child to read is to read together and have fun doing it. We stop and talk about the story or laugh at the pictures and make predictions about "what next". We also emphasize rhyming words and make up other rhyming words. Sometimes I'll have him say a letter and the sound it makes then we sound out words together. He's not in a hurry to read and I'm not forcing the issue, I just keep read to him and introducing small steps. Most importantly, we both love the time together. I know that when he's ready he'll take off.
We also do workbooks like Leapfrog and basic kindergarten. Again, for short periods of time to keep it fun.
Math is in the kitchen cooking. It's talking about how much things weigh, cost, or the amounts we put in the bag at the grocery store. It's pushing him in the swing and counting together. It's measuring things at home for home improvement projects. It's real life math. We also count things in books and write letters in his workbooks.
Oh, another thing is we do an outing a week to Stone Mountain or the Fernbank or the park. It's play time, which is jsut as important as the other.
Best wishes,
rachel H