V.M.
I am all for giving teacher gifts and showing appreciation, At thebeginning of the year and at christmas and Valentines and at teh end of the year.
I find it extremely odd that they teacher is Advertising her bday on the send home calendar, that just seems cheesy to me.
As so whether or not to send something, it's up to you. And i would hate to have my kid be the only one NOT doing something, although i have found only about half the class does stuff in my kids public elem school.
Just doesn't sit too well with me, like she is asking for gifts and putting herself on level with the kids.