Hi J.-
I had that same question too awhile back. I never posted it but just thought about it. My daughter is 11 months and about 2-3 months ago, our housekeeper and mother-in-law would make comments about her feeding. They would say, "Well at her age, I was feeding my kids chicken soup with the chicken cut up into tiny pieces. And at her age, i was feeding my children....etc.etc." Well I thought, "she is my child and I am feeding her the food I make her."
I make all her food. Wholesomebabyfood.com helped me in determining what she should be eating at what age. I started feeding her tiny pieces of chicken and turkey meatballs at around her late 9 months. Also mozarella cheese cut up into tiny pieces. She started getting finicky when I would spoon feed her the pureed foods. She would nod her head back and forth when she saw the spoon coming. Now I just cut up pieces and put them onto her tray. But be careful because they tend to put too much into their mouth. It happened to me and I just put a few at a time now. I give her chicken pieces or turkey meatball pieces, along with cut up steamed brocolli. I guess now I can also feed her white fish. I have not yet tried it though. She loves eating kiwi and strawberries. They are her favorite. I give them to her in little pieces.
I still give her the pureed foods I make for her usually for breakfast with yogurt. Once she started nodding to me, I realized that she likes to feed herself. It has to do with their little independence they are beginning to develop.
Good luck!