Taking 16 Month Old off the Bottle -- Wont Take Milk from Sippy Cup.

Updated on July 29, 2011
N.G. asks from Renton, WA
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I am taking my 16 month old daughter off the bottle. She only has it in the car, nap, and bed time. She drinks water and juice from sippy cups and cups with straws all day. This has not been going well. Im on day four and my third kind of sippy cup. Currently Im trying the "nubby" cup with the silicone spout. She gets FURIOUS when I try to give her milk in anything besides a bottle. Ive tried warming it up, cold, and everything in between. She has always been a great baby -- but this is breaking my heart. She just SCRREEEAMS for up to 30 minutes now before she goes to sleep. Thats getting a little better for this nap time it was only 5 minutes. The good thing is she has been eating lots of yogurt/cheese/tofu for her calcium. Im starting to cave in thinking I will try again in months from now -- but I know thats not good she will only be more strong willed and upset then. HELP! Any ideas/tips or encouragement would be ever so appreciated.

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So What Happened?

Thank you all so much for the very helpful and great ideas! Im always open to imput and suggestions. I so appreciate and value you moms out there I tell ya!
Well my little one by the end of day four decided to she liked the "nubby" cup and took her milk. I did warm it for the next few days but now she will take the milk cold as well!! Ahhhh sooo nice! The main reason I took her off is she is a stubborn little one with quite the temper and personality so I could not imagine doing it later when she realllllly would be difficult to do so. So it did all work out. I was definately having a moment when I wrote in but by the end of the day all had calmed and it has been great ever since. She takes her cup at nap, bed and in the car. Still wont drink milk from the other sippy cups like she does her water -- but everything in slow time. Hope I can help you sometime in the future! Thanks Again!

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K.P.

answers from Seattle on

Just start taking it down a bottle or two each day, and then when a few days have gone by, start taking down a bottle more, and progressively wean her off of it.

It will get easier, more than 4 days, and sometimes more than 3 different kinds of sippys. It took my son to try around 5 sippys before we found one that he really liked. We use the Playtex ones that are colorful.

Start by taking away the car bottle or the nap time bottle, those will be easier to take away and replace with a sippy. Just keep handing it to her frequently through the day so that she gets used to holding it, and hopefully starts to drink from it more and more.

Then start by taking lastly the nighttime bottle, after she is more used to the sippy through out the day and then by then she might be more willing to use the sippy rather than a bottle.

It takes time, and a lot of patience. Just be consistent and she will learn to accept it.

Good luck!

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C.S.

answers from Milwaukee on

My son was off the bottle accept for before bed and we couldn't break him of that one until he was 18m+. I tried, but had the same issues you did. Then suddenly he got it...he was just old enough to understand and I said you can't have a bottle, but a sippy instead and he was fine with it.

Sometimes waiting is better because there level of understanding is better and they 'get it' and understand you aren't trying to keep them from the milk just the vessel. :)

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P.K.

answers from New York on

I always wonder what the rush is to get rid of the b ottle. Would you like
someone to take away your morning coffee or something you really really
enjoy. She is only 16 months. I say let her have it. If it is only in the
car, naptime and bedtime, why make everyone miserable. Life is too short
for this. She is only a baby once. Let her be happy.

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R.G.

answers from Denver on

I would go slowly. Get rid of the nap time bottle first, since that is going ok. My kids were breast fed, so I don't have a lot of advice there. But with weaning from breast feedings they say to drop one feeding at a time, I'm sure that works for bottles too.

As for the milk, only one of my kids ever took milk in a sippy cup. Will she take it in a straw cup, because that's a good alternative. They just ate a lot of cheese, yogurt and calcium fortified orange juice. Now they are much older (6, 11 &13) and drink a lot of milk. Just keep offering it and she'll eventually drink it. Kind of like introducing a new food, keep offering and eventually they'll eat it (unless it's my 6 yr old and eggs.)

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S.L.

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Bottles and breasts are never *just* about the milk. It's also about the comfort. It sounds like your daughter's not ready to give up the comfort of the bottle. I would wait a while and try again, weaning her slowly as others have suggested.

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