L.W.
You should let the doctor know what you want and stick to it. The only reason you should have a c-section is if it is truly medically necessary. I had my first two vaginally, and one was 9 pounds. I felt great in comparison to my other two which were c-sections. The first was required because she was breech. The second was because my doctor wouldn't do a vaginal after a c-section. I wish I'd gone to another doctor. He was only 7 pounds, it would have been so much easier. For me, it was awful, painful and recovery time was long. Unless they can give you a sound medical reason for a c-section, stick with what you want, even if it does mean going to another doctor.