Hi P.,
I am new to the area (Fayetteville) so I don't know a lot of resources, but I wanted to give my input as to overnight camp. I do think that 5 is a bit too young in general. I don't know your daughter. She may be very advanced emotionally for her age & could handle that. But, I personally don't think kids should sleep over anywhere that isn't family or a very close friend until at least 10. I can't imagine how hard it is to be a single Mom! I am sure you want nothing but the best for her. I'll keep my ears open around town. My husband grew up here, so his Mom might know of something. She's pretty deep-rooted in the community. What is your daughter into? Are there any restrictions or requirements you have (such as: nowhere that has a pool or needs to be Bible-based...)? Good luck & I'll let you know if I hear of anything.
Take care,
S.