K.T.
R.- Alright....make sure your sitting down for this. Take a deep breath......exhale. Relax your shoulders....Your son is PERFECTLY normal. I do have some experience with this. I have 2 boys. My oldest is almost 6 and my youngest is almost 3. I had never experienced this with my older son, so when it started with my youngest, I was also concerned. My son would repeat the first letter or sound, for up to 20 seconds at times, or he would prolong sounds; "mmmmmmay". I spoke with a speech therapist and an occupational therapist. They said that it was completely normal for children between the ages of 2 and 5. The first thing you want to do is get away from calling this "stuttering". This is called a normal speech disfluency. Realx, and don't act concerned or stressed when your son is doing this. As you know, he picks up on that and it adds to his frustration. When he starts talking and is repeating his sounds, get down on his level, relax your shoulders, try a relaxed smile, make eye contact and when he gets out what he is saying...simply respond. DO NOT try to give him his words or help him to get it out. Be patient. The speech disfluency is the same as when we say "uuuhhh" or "ummm" when we are looking for a filler while we think of what to say next. He is learning many words, very quickly at this age and his brain may be moving faster than his mouth can. Only a teeny-tiny percent of children who experience this disfluency, actually end up having problems with stuttering. My son did this for about a month. At one point it seemed like he was having trouble with EVERYTHING he said. Today, he dosent do it at all. It can last much longer but, like I said, you do not need to be concerned. Make sure that the people who interact with your child (babysitters, daddy, grandma) know how to use these same skills and not to label this as stuttering. I hope this helps. Good luck and keep up the good work mom!!