T.C.
What about starting her a charm bracelet. Pass the word to grand parents aunts, etc:.. have dad pick a charm, you pick a charm, put a "big sister" charm on it. Charm bracelets are something I see on tons of my non-girlie girls. Its something you can add to all year to commemorate special events and or accomplishments.
Scarves are also popular... even better, how about a crochet hook and yarn to make her own. Include a certificate for a few classes. I perscribe a size I hook and a medium color skein of Red Heart for a beginner. Typically, a ten year old can get the basics in 3-4 lessons. It's a lasting skill that she can enjoy forever. It's a great time passer at Doctor visits, long drives... etc.