Stanger Anxiety

It's quite normal , he doesn't know them , simple as that.

Hi! Both of my children went through this starting at 3-4 months of age. When my daughter, my first child, went through this it was agonizing for me because I didn't know why she was doing it. I just made sure that I frequently visited friends and family so that she would grow to know everyone. Also, I wouldn't let someone come up and immediately get in her face or try to hold her, I would let her warm up first and look around. It really only lasted until she was about 5-6 months old and then she was fine. I would drop her off to whoever was babysitting her and kiss her goodbye and she wouldn't take a second look at me, to my relief. My son is now 4 months old and he is doing the same thing. I don't worry because I know he just wants mommy and it will pass.

Because that is how nature wired him - it is why humans survived as long as they have. Babies need to know who will protect them and give the fish eye to anyone who isn't mom (or dad). It means you survive - it is pure instinct.

:)

Hi T.,
This usually happens around 6 months when they become more aware.If the baby is not around or held by the same person they often experience anxiety. You need to be patient , it can go until they are 1 yr.If you are very concerned have that person spend more time with your son before handing him over to them. You need to explain this to the person who may just want to grab him up.
Good luck,
L.

I feel your pain! My ds won't go to anyone but me, even his own father! I went to the convenience store down the street once and he screamed himself blue the entire 10 minutes I was gone! I know from my other children, though, it will get better.....actually, enjoy it, as when they are teenagers you can't get them to come near you! ;)