Congratulations on expecting your first child! I had my second child at St. Mary's almost 5 years ago. Things may have changed a lot since then, but I'll tell you about my experiance anyway.
I am very much into natural childbirth practices. I did not have an epidural when my son was born (first child) 2 years prior to giving birth to my daughter at St. Mary's. His was a very difficult birth, but I made it and the nurses at that hospital in Warrensburg were very supportive and encouraging of my efforts to forgo pain meds.
I made the same decision of not wanting pain meds for my daughter's birth. However, I did not feel supported AT ALL in my decision. There were signs in the room encouraging women to have an epidural and I even had a nurse go so far as to tell me, "Your baby will never thank you for not having an epidural." That really made me angry because it wasn't about getting thanked by my baby, it was about doing things the way I felt they should be done. It's easier on the nurses if you take pain meds, and it was obvious to me that they wanted me to have them. I made it VERY clear that I was not planning on having them and I stuck to my guns. I told my nurse (who was receptive to my requests) that I would let her know if I felt like I needed something and for her to please not ask me if I wanted an epidural. When it was time for me to push, there were several nurses in the room. They were all amazed that I could feel to push because most of them had never seen anyone give birth without an epidural. It kind of made me sad that the meds were pushed so hard there.
I also didn't like the way they did the doctors rounds. All the babies are taken into the NICU at the same time and the docs check them out. Parents are not allowed to be in there since confidential information about ALL the babies is discussed at that time. I did not like being told I could not be with my baby. After they are checked out, the doctor comes to your room to talk to you. With my son, the doctor came to your room where you had your baby with you and discussed things with you while checking out the baby and I liked that so much better.
I felt like after my baby was born, I rarely saw a nurse. My daughter had to be in the NICU, so they weren't coming to my room to check on her, but it would've been nice to have regular communication with them w/out me having to make the walk to the NICU every time I wanted information.
The rooms were nice, not sure if there was wi-fi or not. I wasn't terribly impressed with the care or communication I recieved, especially as compared to my experience with my son, who, by the way, was also in the NICU. Didn't like how much they seemed to push meds, but if you plan on having meds anyway, that wouldn't be a big deal.
My advice to you and any mother to be is to know what you want and know how you want things to go. Get educated beforehand about things like breastfeeding and natural birthing practices so you have an idea of how you'd like things to go. Enlist your husband as your advocate and then both of you stick to your guns. Nurses are great people and I appreciate all that they did to help me, but when it came to my body and my baby, I am glad that I made my own decisions and stuck with them. Best of luck to you!