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My son didn't actually do this, but then again, he wasn't stringing words into sentences like your daughter was. I wouldn't worry too much about it.
Are you doing a home program with her everyday? It is not enough to have 2 lessons a week. The home program, twice a day, is what really teaches her. Talk to your speech therapist about that. Also talk about exactly what to do when she doesn't want to talk to you.
My son would grunt or point A LOT and I had to be a bit tough on him. If he wouldn't try, I wouldn't give whatever it was that he wanted to him until he did. Sometimes that caused tears or meltdowns. Eventually, he gave up fighting me and things got better.
I'm sure your lady will explain a lot to you about it - good luck!
Dawn