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How exciting!! My husband and i took out daughter who was 3.5 on a the Disney Wonder 4 day, 3 night cruise in January of 2003. There aren't enough hours in the day for me to tell you what a WONDERFUL WONDERFUL WONDERFUL time we had--pure pefection!!! I'll try to hit the major points: Disney absolutely puts that "magic" in the cruise. Your service will be top notch. You won't ever want to go on another cruise ship because their service is SO incredible! There is SO much to do for the entire family your head will spin! First off--length of cruise? We were SO saddened that we did NOT do the 7 day. By the time we finally learned how to find our room again on this monsterous boat without getting lost it was time to pack up and leave :-( If you are going to spend the $ for a Disney Cruise I would highly recommend and encourage you to do the 7 days. You can actually unpack your belongings and get settled in and feel like you have some time to breath--and have plenty of time to take in everything there is to do instead of trying to cram it all into 3 days like we did. Children are very resilient and usually bouce back quickly. 2nd: The kids club is absolutely WONDERFUL! The older kids love to stay there and if you have a very outgoing younger child, he or she might really enjoy it, too. My daughter got to have a real tea party with Wendy! We were trying to drag her out of there one night at close to MIDNIGHT--she didn't want to leave she was having so much fun. It did take a day for her to get used to it, but once she did we got to enjoy some adult time. 3. There is an adult-only restaurant that takes reservations and fills up VERY quickly. If you are interested in having a relaxing evening with your husband, make your reservations for the restaurant as soon as you get on the ship. Your children can go to the kids club and you can enjoy yourself with an adult dinner, knowing that they are well taken care of. 4. Take Dramamine or consider the sea-sick patch for everyone--just in case. You don't want the trip ruined by anyone getting nauseated.
I could go on and on and on.......we are actually planning on taking another one in the next 2-3 years. My husband is the one that REALLY wants to go back and he is very anit-vacation at times! If you'd like more info or details you can send me a message with your questions and I'd be happy to fill you in a bit more. You won't be disappointed with your decision and will have a fantatic time!!