Sleeping Troubles - Ballston Lake,NY

Updated on May 03, 2010
E.M. asks from Ballston Lake, NY
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My daughter is 2 and a half and was always a good napper and bed time is usually good although there have been nights that we struggle. Since the weather has gotten nicer or it is just that she is getting older she has been refusing to take naps and then refusing to go to sleep at bed time. I leave her in her crib for over an hour at nap time and she just wont go to sleep she will talk or play in there. So then if she doesnt sleep at nap time, I assume she should go to be early and that doesnt happen either. She cant possibly be getting enough sleep and I really need a break from her and I cant get one. I am so frustrated. Nap time is soooooo important to me mentally. I need that break to be happy and I am a much better mom when I get it. I am a SAHM and I dont get much help from my hubby. I also work from my house as a college adviser. I am falling behind in my job and I feel like I am loosing my mind. Last night she went to sleep at 10:00 and awakened at 7:00. That is not enough sleep. Most children sleep longer. I just dont know what to do. Please help
BTW I take my daughter outside all day long and she gets plenty of exercise so that is not the problem

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J.P.

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Let her stay in her crib for the whole nap time/rest time. There is nothing wrong with that and will let you have the time you need to work. She will also learn that that is down time whether she is playing in there or not. Same with bed. I would continue to put her down at her bedtime. I think it is the longer days, but my son seems to be napping less and talking longer at night. You may also want to try some blackout drapes if that seems to be an issue.

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S.H.

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Well your job is suffering... and you need time for your job.
My friend works from home, not for herself, but for an Employer. Therefore, it is imperative that she works... and keeps up. She thus hired a part-time babysitter/Nanny to come to her home to watch her child. And this has been the only way, she can actually work.
Or, you put your child in daycare part-time... at daycare or Preschool, the kids nap and it is a part of the day's routine. Then once you pick up your child after, she would have already napped.

The thing is, you have a job which you work at from home. So either that suffers or you lose your job... or you implement an alternative, so that you can work, and then after, you can spend time with your child.

all the best,
Susan

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C.S.

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My son started to give up his nap when he was 3 - so a bit older - but we instituted "quiet hour". He wasn't in a crib, but had to stay on his toddler bed with two "quiet toys" and two books of his choosing to "read". I set an alarm for an hour and do what I need to do during quiet hour. Sometimes he would sleep and other times he would play quietly.

He just turned 4, still does quiet hour and sometimes naps during it:) Those are happy days since Mama needs the nap as I'm expecting #2.

Good luck!

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