Hey V.,
My name is M., and I am also a mother of two wonderful 8 year old boys. I have just recently been married, for three weeks now, and it's a challenge at times to get adjusted lol.
Anyways, the answer to your question is music. If you would like, you can just look around a Wal-mart and see that they have a lot of choices to sleep to. Try anything you like that sounds like things you are accustomed to like bird sounds in the early morning, the way waves sounds like on a beach, or even soft music that can help you sleep better. I have come to find out that it helps to have music like this at home, especially on days that i don't get any sleep from my hectic days. I work at a alternative school and since I drive the bus, I don't like any loud noises when I get home. Just peace. and it is really hard to accomplish that with a new husband, and two spoiled eight year old boys in the house. I am a christian also who juggles going to services, cleaning my church, practicing sign language, and handling or doing anything else that needs to be done into my days. And yes, most often, it's really hard to get to sleep when I need to, lol. So, if you would like, just email me back and let me know how this works for you, because it sure works for me. I know how you feel about not wanting to take any pills. I am the same way. I don't take any medicine, and I do my best to wait it out, and not have to take any medicine. I have always been a fan or just praying it through, than shoving pills down my throat,lol
A mother of two,
M.