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J., about the wheat/gluten problem, it might NOT show on regular allergy tests. for years I've been having issues with gluten and after I was put on extra vitamin D it has gotten better. so also have his vitamin D levels checked next time they do a blood test on him...he could be a bit deficient too. I'm not saying it would be it, but it's really worth checking it out. if you have any more questions about gluten-free, send me an e-mail. ~C.~
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Hello J.,
I hope he's not allergic to anything else.
when increasing his protein intake make sure it's balanced. you donot want to overload his kidneys with too much protein and not enough carbs and good fats. also, make sure he gets enough calcium, magnesium and vitamin D.
here are some ideas: in an asian supermarket (south east corner of frankfort and Josey Ln, and one near josey ln and 190 (super H) you can find 'mung beans' looks like split pea but yellow those have lots of protein and fiber.
what type of "milk" do you give him? there is oat milk and rice milk enriched with vitamins and calcium.
if he likes meat, make him meatloaf or beef patties, give him turkey, try and stay away from processed meats, you never really know all that's in it. they add "whey" to so many things that's not even funny! cook beans. look at "mexican / latin /asian" foods for ideas and skip the milk and soy.
get him chewable enzyme tablets to help him digest his food better. and as you probably know, ALWAYS read the labels because manufacturers change the ingredients from time to time.
I don't know what you do for birthday parties but here is a place where I get my favorite cakes to make: www.reallygreatfoods.com they sell a lot of soy free / wheat free / dairy free products. Heve you been to sprouts or whole foods? they carry a lot of dairy free and soy free products too. for a while my godson was allergic to soy and milk and that's where we get the birthday cakes!
does he like corn bread? make your own and add extra rice protein or soy protein. you can make your own almond milk (the soy milk maker also works with almonds) and I found that using almond milk to make oatmeal or malt-o-meal, puddins, etc comes closest to using cow milk.
you need to make a plan. most of the protein stuff out there has soy and/or milk.
can your son have peanuts? if so, natural peanut butter is a great source of protein.
with those allergies, you'd have to stick with mostly home made.
can he have eggs? like they say "eggs are the perfect food" (as long as you're not allergic to eggs, of course!)
here is something I found--keep in mind that info is geared towards a low-carb diet and not a kids diet. use this as a guideline to help you add more protein in his diet:
http://www.the-low-carb-way.com/high-protein-foods.php
High Protein Foods: Meat
Any meat will be a high protein and low carb food. In addition to the common chicken, beef, turkey, and ham, you might want to try some duck, goose, venison, and lamb for variety.
High Protein Food: Fish
Fish is an often overlooked source of protein. The main benefit of coldwater fish, other than protein, is that they are a rich source of omega-3 fatty acids. One danger, however, is that fish can contain unhealthy levels of heavy metals such as mercury. In addition to fleshy fish, such as salmon, cod, and trout, you might want to try some shellfish such as lobster, crab, oysters, and shrimp. In fact, these are some of the most delectible critters on the planet.
High Protein Foods: Nuts
Nuts are a good source of protein. Walnuts are a good source of omega-3 fatty acids. Peanuts (not really a nut but a legume --beans--) are a good source of protein and carbohydrates.
High Protein Food: Beans
Beans are a decent source of protein, and an especially important source for vegetarians. Most beans contain an appreciable amount of carbohydrates, and should be used in moderation on a low carb diet. You also want to make sure you cook beans thoroughly, as our digestive tracks are not adapted to breaking down some of the beans' proteins. Cooking provides necessary pre-digestion.
High Protein Food: Eggs
Eggs are the perfect high protein food! Cholesterol, you say? Baughhh! Dietary cholesterol has almost no effect on blood cholesterol. Eggs are a great source of protein, and even some omega-3 fatty acids. To maximize the omega-3 content, it is good to get eggs from range-fed birds.
good luck and keep trying! ~C.~