My husband is a NYPD sergeant. Many NYE's he's worked in Times Square. But we had decided even when we were young that NYE was over-rated. Dinners out were overly expensive, service was bad, parties with firends were too over-prepared and never quite as fun as you hoped or expected. So we began staying home way before the kids came. WE'd play scrabble or watch a movie (in those days a video). When the kids were babies in order to keep my eyes open to stay up that late I'd saved many days of laundry and begin folding around 10:30 while watching TV. My mom would come in from her apartment (on the side of our house) - we'd toast and I'd give mom a big hug & kiss and be in bed by 12:10.
Now that the kids are 13 & 16 not much has changed. They're home-bodies too so we all watch a movie together - they work at keeping me awake and we all go to sleep by 1:00. The big deal is waht kind of snacke & dinner we'll have so we'll figure that out this afternoon. MY husband is running an emergency response unit just outside of Times Square tonight and he'll probably call us around 12:15 and get home around 3:00. He seems to have more exicting NYE's than we do - although he'd MUCH rather by home in his PJ's!