I totally feel your pain! Actually, I *felt* your pain. So here's my story. My first baby wasn't too painful. My second, I was in a LOT of pain and delivery was actually longer than my first. This time around, we hired a doula. When I told her about my pain, she suggested seeing a chiropractor. I have never in my life seen a chiropractor, and have some skepticism about my ability to find a good one. She recommended a cranio-sacral therapist that she knew. I had never heard of this, and, again, was skeptical. What she said was this: Chiros work with alignment; CST's work on muscle memory. So, if you're aligned, but your muscles keep pulling you back out of whack, you still hurt. The session was about an hour, and it was like getting a massage. NOTHING hurt, nothing pulled, nothing was stressful to my body. She did a number of things to me that helped, and she showed me how to have my husband do them, also. What helped the most, by far: she had me on my back, knees together, feet open at toes, closed at the heels. I was supposed to press against her hands, and, when she felt appropriate tension, she let go. My pubic bone actually popped back into place, and it was completely night and day. I had my husband do this about every other day until I delivered, and I went from two deliveries in the 50-some-hours to a much easier, 18 hour delivery. It was amazing. Before the appointment, I was hobbling around, gimping; after the appointment, I could walk just like normal--almost no pain at all (I was 38 weeks along...a little pain was to be expected). Don't just try what I told you about; I didn't do a very good job explaining it, and there's more to it--but if you find someone who can do that for you, and teach you, wow....all I can say is it made a WORLD of difference for me. Even my husband was impressed, and he doesn't tend to buy into alternative medicine much, either.
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I totally feel your pain! Actually, I *felt* your pain. So here's my story. My first baby wasn't too painful. My second, I was in a LOT of pain and delivery was actually longer than my first. This time around, we hired a doula. When I told her about my pain, she suggested seeing a chiropractor. I have never in my life seen a chiropractor, and have some skepticism about my ability to find a good one. She recommended a cranio-sacral therapist that she knew. I had never heard of this, and, again, was skeptical. What she said was this: Chiros work with alignment; CST's work on muscle memory. So, if you're aligned, but your muscles keep pulling you back out of whack, you still hurt. The session was about an hour, and it was like getting a massage. NOTHING hurt, nothing pulled, nothing was stressful to my body. She did a number of things to me that helped, and she showed me how to have my husband do them, also. What helped the most, by far: she had me on my back, knees together, feet open at toes, closed at the heels. I was supposed to press against her hands, and, when she felt appropriate tension, she let go. My pubic bone actually popped back into place, and it was completely night and day. I had my husband do this about every other day until I delivered, and I went from two deliveries in the 50-some-hours to a much easier, 18 hour delivery. It was amazing. Before the appointment, I was hobbling around, gimping; after the appointment, I could walk just like normal--almost no pain at all (I was 38 weeks along...a little pain was to be expected). Don't just try what I told you about; I didn't do a very good job explaining it, and there's more to it--but if you find someone who can do that for you, and teach you, wow....all I can say is it made a WORLD of difference for me. Even my husband was impressed, and he doesn't tend to buy into alternative medicine much, either.