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Hi....This is nearly the same scenario we had a few months ago. My son (2 1/2) did keep his room, but he went from crib to bunk and there was adjustment. He would get out of bed at naptime and bedtime to just play or come downstairs to find me, etc. I just had to find something that was worth staying in bed for. For my son, it was the healthy vitamin they have in the morning...mannabears. I told him he couldn't have one if he got out of bed, even once. He lost his mannabear two mornings, but that solved my problem because he loves them so much. He never gets out of bed now. Or maybe you could do the reverse. Promise him a special treat/reward if he stays in bed all night. Good luck...I hope you find the solution.