I am experiencing the same. First child, wanted sex ALL the time while pregnant, I mean three times a day, all the time, after giving birth, NEVER wanted sex. My second is 3 months, and this time I told my husband while I was pregnant, get it while the getting is good because afterwards I won't even want to touch you. And whalla, I don't. My midwife says along with the hormones, if you are breastfeeding, which I am, our vaginal canal doesn't go back as fast as when you're not breastfeeding and the lubrication isn't there either. I remember with my first, when we finally had sex, when our son was 6 months it was like the Grand Canyon, LOL. So do the kegels too, my canal did go back too. It took me a long time after that to want to have sex again. My husband and I talked about it, that's so important. Don't be ashamed or embarrassed. In my opinion, if my husband wants it, he has two hands. I can give him love and affection in other ways too, like hugging and kissing and caressing. though I must admit, I have to make a conscience effort for that. I need to share my nuturing with everyone, its not just for the new baby in town. I also know, that when I am ready, I will be ready, and once we are into it for 2 minutes, I will be thinking, why did I wait so long, this feels so good. Good luck and you are not alone.