My first child gave me such issues with going to bottle (from exclusively breast) that I ended up not going back to work - cuz she NEVER took a bottle. My son - I started him on bottle at about 6 wks, cuz I didn't want to go thru the same thing. Once I got him on a bottle (I still breast feed), it was much easier to give him a bottle whenever we needed to be gone. I would definitely try as soon as possible & if you have any issues - LEAVE & have your husband or MIL or someone else give the bottle. They can smell you (and of course, you don't want to listen to them cry for you). I would just start with 6-8 oz. & see how much your child will eat, and go from there. She will not over-eat. For solids, you can start any time now. Give every new food about 3-4 days before trying another new food (so you can make sure she's not allergic). You shouldn't feed solids by bottle. Check out "Super Baby Food". It gives you a timeline of when, how much, what foods, everything you need to know about feeding your child, including recipes for toddlers, and even how to make your own food (that is SUPER EASY!). At this age, follow your child! If you have any questions, you can definitely message me. Good Luck!