Dear K., you are your childs best adcovate and need to keep pressing the school for support! They are not going to go the extra mile to help our kids if they dont need to. My daughter also has issues but so does everyone. My daughter sees a social worker once a month and this allows us as family go together or if she feels she needs to talk alone then thats an option too( she's 9). Also she sees a psychiatrist every 8wks because she takes the lowest dose of prozac possible(has to take at night,she wakes up ready for her day). She cannot focus in school, has anxiety and pulls her hair(trich).I have monthly meetings with the princ,teacher and anyone involved with my daughter-at my request. Im not going away and they know that by now.I also have a lawyer as backup! You may also want to get a school advocate. Dont feel helpless, you are just worried about your child and feel like you cant fix it. Also if you google behavior mod charts(all positive) there are some really good ones(& age appropriate) that you can give to the teachers to enforce at school, demand this, you have this right. also have one ____@____.com have this in our home and both my kids have one for there specific work on areas also includes some chores,they earn points every day for every item and are added up daily/by the end of the week they are added up for a prize.Behavior @ school is worth 5pts as is homework=5pts ect. under 100pts pick a dollar store prize out of a bag-- 101+pts pick a 5 dollar item-- 201+ pick a ten dollar item, a sticker for that day for a B or A test= 1 extra pt.each, this has worked magic! They know they have to earn these pts and they work really hard and feel good about themselves. Both my children are night and day, God made them that way, different, if they were robots like the school wants them to be they wouldnt be any fun! Keep your head up, express your feelings, I have yelled and cried at some of these meetings because of some of their ridiculous reasoning and not givig my child enough credit. My daughter has average grades, great ideas, beautiful green eyes and this is who she is and no one is going to fight for her but me. email me anytime ____@____.com good luck