C.M.
One of my nephews has Asperger's syndrome (?spelling) and one of the first things I remember that was 'off' is that he hated being swaddled as a baby - he couldn't stand to have blankets confining his arms and didn't like being held close and cuddled. (breastfeeding was a nightmare and my sister finally resorted to pumping and bottles) By the time he was one-two hugs were definitely on his terms only and always had 'personal space' issues where if anyone entered his area it threw him off and culd proke a tantrum
I'd be interesting in what sigs you are noticing at 2 months? My nephew wasn't diagnosed until he was 3 but I agree with the other posters - early intervention was wonderful and provided a lot of support for the parents - the early you can start to treat some of issues that better the results.
Good Luck :) P.S. There is a book we read back a few years ago that was very helpful I believe it was called the 'out of synch child' but I don't have the authors name handy..
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