D.B.
Hi A..
I'm not a step-mom, but I have the same situation with one of my own sons. I'm divorced and have home schooled my two boys all along until this year. My oldest son sounds like your step-son. He is very disrespectful, angry, and even causes problems for his younger brother. Because of this I've made the decision to stop home schooling just because there was no peace in our house. I work full-time and was not able to get work done and teach him at the same time only due to his disruptions. I opted for sending them both to school so I could have some peace during work hours. We go to a Christian counselor that I highly recommend. He is at the Christian Counseling Center in Campbell on Bascom Ave. His name is Brian McIntire and he is young and can really relate to young boys, who by the way, seem to get this way at about age 9. You can leave a message for Brian at ###-###-####. Tell him Deb Barlow referred you. I have sent many people over to him. My son is 11 and really likes Brian. He's up on all the latest talk and computer games, so he can identify with them. I hope this helps. Don't feel like you are adnormal for wanting some peace. The other thing is that when a new baby comes along, the older one feels very left out, even when you are giving them attention. Hopefully you can make some time to spend alone with him and show him that he still matters to you. Hope this helps. God bless you and your family.