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Hi K.,
I think I'm in the same boat (sort of) as you. My daughter is 11 months old and my husband also works in DC. He takes the MARC in from Odenton, so his commute is almost an hour and a half. I would take a look at Elkridge too. It's not far from Ellicott City, but is a little cheaper. We live in Severn (not thrilled) but I think every city has it's ups and downs. There are houses (new...I would say about a year old) that are from the 400's right by Arundel Mills. Actually really close to 100. Everything is just so expensive around our area. We were talking to a realtor and they had suggested looking into foreclosures. There seem to be a lot in the area. Nothing wrong with them, just people couldn't make the payments on them. In fact, we looked at a home in the Crofton/Bowie area that was roughly 2800sq ft. for 419k. Nothing was wrong with it, it was an elderly couple that lived in it that couldn't afford it anymore. It just wasn't the type of house we were looking for. I tend to be a bit picky, so the set up wasn't right.
But...I know that was long winded...I would definitley look at Elkridge. My husband and I have even thought about Carroll County cause it's a lot cheaper out there. you just have to sacrafice the commute. The houses are beautiful and the area is very nice as well.
Hope this helps!