I am also a teacher turned stay at home mom, and have ALSO not joined any moms groups in the area because I too believe one should not have to pay to spend time with other mothers. I also do not believe in having to be "interviewed" by the other members of the mothers group: what is this, high school? You get to interview me and decide that I am or am not cool enough to hang out with you and your club? We're all adults here (or supposed to be! Wether or not some women act like adults is a different matter altogether!) - I have a two year old daughter, and will be caring for my dear friends new baby come july (he will be 2 months old by then) - I would love to get together at the park with some other mommies during the spring and summer.
Send me an email at ____@____.com and perhaps we can set up a time to meet? Any other mommies in the area with children of a similar age, please contact me and perhaps we can set up a regular weekly playdate. I live in Campbell, within walking distance of John D Morgan park.