C.D.
Stacy, that must be so hard for you to be away from your family. However, if you child is having problems and needs services, you are in a much better place that IL, believe me.
First, contact Easter Seals in your area and ask if they have early childhood intervention or something like it. They will evaluate your child and see if you are eligible for services. I think that you might be able to do this through your local government offices.
Also, contact the local PUBLIC preschool, if you get no success from the village/town administration. They should have information for you or be able to point you in the right direction.
It'll be ok--you're in a very good place, believe it or not.