D.M.
girl it would be a no brainer for me and it was when my husband and i first got married.
it was my oldest son and i for 3 yrs alone before i met my husband. he slept with me since the day he was born. at first my husband didn't say anything, but after a little while he started making comments about the marriage bed. thats when i said whoa bubba... my son comes first. he is only little once. he still climbs in bed with us every once in while (hes 8 now) and my husband never says anything anymore. they get jealous i think because the bed is supposed to be just for them if you know what i mean. they are like children themselves sometimes, poor guys. lol. any way i hope some of this was helpful.
D. Mattern-Muck
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