My daughter at 4 ended up having IV sedation.
When they say "IV" sedation, I thought they were going to put in an IV. They just gave her a shot of Versed.
I wish I had listened to the dentist when she recommended we go that way first. I said no and ended up having to do the sedation anyway.
(She had been to the dentist before and was GREAT with just a cleaning and x-rays.)
My daughter has a small mouth and her teeth are very crowded. She had a small cavity. They started drilling and she freaked out! I never saw her so scared and nothing could calm her down. She was screaming and trying to jump off the chair. Staff was holding her down so the dentist could attempt to drill. They gas did not help her at all.I was thinking that the dentist might do more harm to another tooth or her gums if that drill were to slip. She was trying to do her best and was staying pretty calm!
I finally told them to stop and sedate her. It turns out that her cavity was much bigger once they started drilling and she needed a "root canal." On kids it isn't called a root canal...it is a pulp something. Then they had to place a cap on the tooth.
She had to stay after her procedure in a room with bean bags for awhile. She had to either drink or eat a popsicle and not vomit. After that she was able to leave.
She behaved like a drunk person. Slurring her speech and had difficulties walking. It lasted about 1 hour after we got home. To my amazement, she remembers everything. I was hoping she would forget so she would be scared the next time.
She always points out the dentist when we drive past it and tells me she doesn't want to go back. That they hurt her!
I wish now I would have taken the advise of the dentist. She told me that it is easier on the kids when they are younger to sedate b/c they don't understand what is being explained to them.
Our IV sedation wasn't covered either and it was about $300.00
I glanced at a post that said something about being in a hospital and being $6000.00. I'm not sure if that could be compared. That might be something extremely complex. I know with handicapped kids/adults (severely handicapped) the dentist actually takes them in an OR and works on them. But I can't see that being the case in an office setting.
If I had to go back, I would sedate first. I would sedate my other children as well. I couldn't stand to see staff members trying to hold my child down and one person holding her head while the dentist is trying to drill again.
I'm sure all kids are different and handle stuff differently.
Good luck with what you decide.
T.