R.K.
S..
Honey.
With tons of love and support and sympathy:
:::::Firmly placing hands on your shoulders and shaking:::::
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WAKE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NO you should NOT continue to pay money!
(Unless you signed some binding legal document in which case you need to consult an attorney)
:::::OH, oh, I stop shaking you now:::::
This is were you learn that when helping others they automatically think you have MORE than what you're giving and begin to EXPECT more if you give handouts on a long term basis without having high standards of your own. You must be sure that your assistance of others matches their own effort at most--because you have to care about and take care of yourself as much as you care about them.
Your "friend" is not actually a friend at this point and you've been reduced to a meal ticket. In all probability this "friendship" is OVER.
I'm sorry about all of this. Pick yourself off, brush off your knees, and remember this lesson of life.
Again, I say this from my heart with sympathy and love.