J.,
I would contact Lutheran General Hospital in Park Ridge (next door to Des Plaines) and get names of their gynocologists. This hospital has a very good reputation as well as doctors; On the top ten list of the country; Very good OB's and specialists (I had Dr. Pesch, OB)and Dr. Iannca (a high risk specialist). Dr. Pesch was reffered to me by Lutheran's renowned doctor, Dr. March, family practitioner, office in Arlington Hts. you could start there. Some offices are on the premises, so I only had to go to one place for my appointments. I got pregnant at age 40 for the first time. Since that's a high risk pregnancy (over 35 y.o.) Dr. Pesch referred me to Dr. Iannca. You would be in a good environment for referrals, I'm sure they have fertility specialists as well etc., Your gynocologist will give you a referral. In my opinion you would be in good hands. I am now 43. Gave birth at Lutheran on 7/17/2007 to a healthy baby boy with no complications (my miracle baby). Ofcourse, it's your call, but maybe you can do some research on it. If it satisfies your needs than go for it. My two year old is doing very well and reaching his milestones (even the tantrums one)lol. Oh, and they have a financial office to process your applications for financial aid. Do get All Kids and FamilyCare insurance (very reasonable and on a sliding scale their direct (#1-877-204-1012). The hospital can file for you. They worked with me on the financial situation after I got home. We had very good communication. As for the doctors, you would need to contact their office staff and find out their billing process.
Good luck to you, if you need further info feel free to message me.
Bernie