Seeking a Friend Who Is Willing to Listen and Be There for Another Mother

Updated on April 20, 2007
M.B. asks from El Cajon, CA
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The new year started off great, I was married to a great husband who I love with all my heart. I have a son whois everything too me, and I had a great job. Then two months ago everything changed and the bad part is it was the last thing I thought would happen. I lost my job and still can't find work, then last week my husband told me he does not have feelings for me anymore and does not know if we can work on it this time. He gave us 3 months to see what happens and if nothing chages he is ending it. I might be able to make it through this a bit easier but I have no friends and being a mother doesn't allow me the time to go out and meet people. I would just love to find another mother that has been through something like this before that is willing to help me and be a friend. Cause right now I feel so alone in the world and I would love to have someone to talk to. please is there anyone out there willing to help.

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So What Happened?

Well it is day four and things have been a little better. Last night I got a hug goodnite before he went to the couch (his choice).That was new because for the last two weeks I have been getting a nite. But things are better on me because I have your help. At first I wasn't going to write and ask for help but I am really happy I did, it helps knowing there are people out there wanting to help even though they don't know you. Two days ago I felt alone in the world but today I don't. I want to thank everyone who has responded and willing to be a friend. I will keep all updated and let you know how I am doing. Also please keep in mind because I have lot going on doesn't mean I can't be a friend for any of you. THANK YOU all!!

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D.V.

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M.

Hey there, I just wanted to say hello and offer you some support. I have not been in your place, but I would love to listen and offer you anything I can to try and help get through this. I know it is so hard being a mom and having friends, just let me know if you need to talk about anything or to just vent.

D.

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V.P.

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M., my heart went out to you as I started reading your cry for a friend. I thank God have not been through this nightmare like you are but I would like to offer any support that I could to you. I am married to a wonderful man and we are expecting our first child in November.
I just wanted to tell you that my husband and I went to a marriage and family councelor when thing before we even were married were too tough for us to handel alone. I would like to recomend someone to you. She is a wonderful none biest woman who will be able to help you and your family through this time and the best part of all that is she charges on a sccale. I would like to give you her info. just let me know. I will be praying for you and your hunband. That God would change his heart back towards and that God would heal any place in your heart that has been broken.I beleive that God can do all that and more if we will just let him.
Love and Prayers,
Your Friend,
V.

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C.B.

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I sent you a private message

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H.M.

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Hey there. I live in Miramar on the base.. I know life can get so ruff at times.. Things kinda got hard for us too with my husband finding out that hes going to iraq in September instead of January.. And just random things.. I love to talk and defiantly love to listen.. I have yahoo, aim, msn and myspace messenger if u want to add me let me know.. My myspace address is www.myspace.com/rublefamily

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S.P.

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Hi M.. Sorry that it seems to rain and pour on you. I have kind of been in your spot several years ago, so I can relate. I live in Lakeside, on the border of El Cajon and Lakeside. You can call me anytime! My number is ###-###-#### and my e-mail is ____@____.com I would love to be your friend! Hope your day goes well!
Steph

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M.G.

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I am 21, been married for almost 4 yrs with a 3 yr old girl and a 7 month old boy. My hubby is deployed right now so I could use more friends too! I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm in La Mesa.

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G.Z.

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Hey M.,

Sorry to hear things are so hard for you at the moment. I'm in Spring Valley, finalizing my divorce after 5 yrs with a 3 yr old that is my #1. Hit me up whenever at ____@____.com or look me up at myspace: omargriselda. Take care.

Gris

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