L.S.
I am so sorry for your loss. My doctor (Dr. Mazzullo) saw me through the birth of my son two years ago (a c-section due) and a miscarriage (with a D&C) at 12 weeks this fall. She was wonderfully supportive through both and I would highly recommend her. Both times I was in the hospital, all the nurses told me that they loved her and also used her practice. The practice is called The Women's Practice and consists of 5 OBs total (all women). One is new, but the other 3 were with her when my son was born. I was extremely impressed with all of them.
I wish you the best of luck! You might also want to ask your doctor for referrals. After the miscarriage, mine told me that she would be happy to help me find a new doctor if I found it too hard to return to her office.