**ADDING THIS: Dr. Marni Dezzani... is the Primary Doctor at Kahala Pediatrics, which I mentioned below. This is the name of "HER" office, and in which she has 2 other Doctors in her office as well. All good.
The "Honolulu Magazine" annually has an issue about the "Best" Doctors in Honolulu, per category.
http://www.honolulumagazine.com/Honolulu-Magazine/Search/...
Or, http://www.honolulumagazine.com/Honolulu-Magazine/July-20...
It also depends on what kind of medical insurance you have, in choosing your Doctors.
You can also go the the websites for "HMSA" for example and research Doctors, or do Google Searches per the name of the Doctor, or the medical insurance company will usually give you a directory booklet of Doctors per specialty.
For OB/GYN I HIGHLY recommend Dr. Benton Chun... he is regularly rated as #1 in the tops of the field. He is very smart, and very experienced and very good (but strict, but nice), and has the ability to think very quickly and effectively in emergency situations, and is very good with surgery and has good hands. Very experienced. Even the nurses & Doctors at hospitals go to him, and routinely say things like "if you are his patient, you have the best." I don't know if he is taking 'new' patients, so you will have to find out. Even fellow Doctors recommend him.
He is located downtown, at the Queen's Medical Center "Physicians Office Building."
Other OB/GYN's are: http://www.ucomparehealthcare.com/drs/hawaii/obstetrics_a...
For Pediatricians, Kapiolani Hospital for Women & Children is the tops in Honolulu and the Pacific Rim area. MANY good Ped's there & Specialists. They have a website as well.
In the Kahala Area, there are: "Kahala Pediatrics." They have 3 Doctors there, (Male & Female), and good and nice.
http://honolulu.citysearch.com/profile/3229360/honolulu_h...
Or at the Straub Clinic in Hawaii-Kai, there is Dr. Brian Tanabe, a Pediatrician, who has excellent reviews as well.
http://www.healthgrades.com/directory_search/physician/pr...
http://www.straubhealth.org/sch/clinics/hawaii-kai.aspx
There is also: Dr. Sia, who has an excellent reputation for Pediatrics and regularly rated as tops. But I don't know if he is accepting new patients.
http://www.healthgrades.com/directory_search/physician/pr...
In Hawaii-Kai, for Adult/Family Doctors, there is also the "Queen's Health Clinic" http://www.queensmedicalcenter.net/healthcare_centers/haw... And they have good Doctors there as well.... but they only take children from 14 years old and up. Dr. Grote is supposed to be good.
Other Family Doctors are: Dr. Kalani Brady http://www.healthgrades.com/directory_search/physician/pr...
Dr. Jon DeBoard (Internal Medicine/Family Doctor) http://www.healthgrades.com/directory_search/physician/pr...
You can also go to this website, to check on 'ratings'/reviews of Doctors:
http://www.healthgrades.com/find-a-doctor?intcid=HN-Phys
For DENTISTS:
1) Pediatric: Dr. Clyde Uchida, at Kahala Mall, very good reputation. http://www.clydeyuchidaddsinc.com/
2) For adult/family Dentistry (near Kahala Mall):
Dr. Paul Tanaka, http://www.paultanakadds.com/Dr._Paul_Tanaka/Home_Page.html
and, Dr. Lance Teramoto. http://www.smilesofaloha.com/index.html
Both Dentists are very good, smart, and very nice.
I'm not from this area, but used to be, and these are the Doc's I know of, have used, and know of just via word of mouth.
Oh, for kids play-groups, try a Google Search on Play groups or "Mommy groups" for your area, using search words "Kahala", "East Oahu", etc. LOTS of parents also go to the Gymboree classes at Kaimuki, and good for meeting others. There is also "Waialae Iki Park" which many kids/parents go to. Nice, clean public park. ALSO, the Kahala Mall website www.kahalamallcenter.com has a monthly or weekly Toddler Time... which is free, and Barnes & Noble I think on Tuesdays, has a 'story time" for kids, which is free. Just go to their website.
http://hawaii.momslikeme.com/members/JournalActions.aspx?...
http://www.alohaparent.com/Events_Calendar/Annual_Events....
Well good luck, just some suggestions.
Hope it helps,
Susan