SAHM Worries

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I have been a SAHM for over 6 years, I have had a couple little part time jobs here and there for a couple months each, usually when I get bored or just want adult interaction. I am now looking into college classes for nursing. Just something to have if I ever do want a full time job. I have a 5 yr old, 3 yr old and a 2 month old. It is hectic and crazy and I feel like pulling out my hair atleast once a day! lol. So, I honestly think that having a couple hours a week to myself to focus on something, other than kids or housework or my husband, will be really good for me.

I feel the same way sometimes. I have been a stay at home mom for 16 years and I have 4 children ages 16, 14, 9 and 6 and one on the way. Plus, I homeschool them all and have homeschooled for 10 years. Whether you have another baby, work a little for extra money or go back to school, you can prioritize your time and make it so you're not so overwhelmed. Maybe set a schedule that includes fun time with your kids. FlyLady.net is an outstanding place to go to and she will send you emails to help you with your routines to keep you going. Hang in there! Your children are still small but it won't be long until they are old enough to help. You're doing a great job!

I started school when my son was 2mo old.

There's nothing that says a person has to take more than one class at a time. (I found 2 classes to be my best fit... financial aid + hours I needed to work/be at class).

College classes are typically 1-2 hours twice a week... so if your kids are both in school next year, why not try taking a class while they are in school?

As for having another one, going to school while taking care of an infant isn't the easiest thing in the world (one studies during naptime and after bedtime)... but it's more than doable.

I've found that I'm actually a better mum when I'm in school part time. I'm only gone about a MAX of 10 hours a week (including drive time) although it can be as few as 5 hours. My brain gets to turn on for awhile (you know, in the different way that it does when you get to use full sentences without editing or explaining or teaching), and I'm super excited to be back at home and be mum again. It's like all the benefits of being a SAHM & a WM all rolled into one. If you're lucky you even get a "paycheck" (aka financial aid).

I've been on a 2 year hiatus from school, and reeeeally miss it. Can't wait to get back in the groove next year. Like Jamie, we homeschool, so it makes class times a little dicier... (because we need to arrange outside classes for kiddo during my class times or childcare)... but at least for ME, it's the best of all worlds.

:) R

i totally understand how you feel. Sometimes i feel like as a stay at home mom sometimes we get so caught up in just the day in and day out that we kind of forget about ourselves and get caught up in the roll of just being a "mom". not that there is anything wrong with being a mom, but sometimes moms need to feel that there is a little more too them as a person as a whole. I have often thought about going back to college to get a degree and start working to have a career, but my problem is that i always want my kids to be first. I wanted to send them off to school. I want to pick them up. I want to not have to worry about calling in if they are sick and feeling guilty about it. the answer for me was working from home. i know that sounds silly, and i know it is not for everyone. But it has really helped me so that my kids are still first, but i have something else that is MINE and that i am proud of. I dont get paid a ton or anything, but it gives me a great self esteem boost and i really enjoy it. I dont think if that is an option that you would like at all, but you can check out http://www.PerfectWorkForMoms.com if you think you may like it at all.

With both kids going to school (your five year old will start Kindergarten in September, right?) you will have the opportunity to pursue a college degree if you want to.

As for housework and laundry, does your husband help you do some of it? Also your children are old enough to start helping you do little things. Would hiring a house cleaner once a month be a possibility? It might be worth the money.

I am not one to advise on having another baby (I have one baby now) but I think you have to weigh your options. Another baby would be wonderful to have if you have the time and energy (plus financial) to devote to one.

You sound like you've stayed home a long time and would like a change. Do you intend to work part-time or full-time? There are pros and cons to every decision. Good luck!