B.R.
ok, i can't tell you what to do... but, i will relate a true story of my husband's brother and sister-in-law. They had 6 children. When they fought, she would just close the door and walk away and let them figure it out. They are all adults now from 25 to 40 years old (3 boys, 3 girls). Most of them don't want children of their own. 2 of them won't speak to their mother. 1 of them only speaks to her when they feel they have to (family funerals etc). 2 of them will not even be in the same location as one of the other siblings. Two of the girls that actually had children did not want their mother anywhere around when their baby was born. When 4 of them came to their grandma's 80th birthday party, they got in a fist fight (it was an open house at a church)! My opinion.... you need to find out what happened to start the fight and discuss why the other got upset at whatever action happened. They need to be told that their actions effect others and how and why.... these are not only good sibling skills, but good life skills. They have got to learn to treat others as they want to be treated. I hurt everyday watching my nieces and nephews struggle with relationships - not only between each other, but with husbands/wives/kids/dating... Just my two cents.