Boo! I hate the way my breast have turned out after 3 pregnancies. I am a naturally small chested person (32 A... sometimes even AA) When I am pregnant they go up to 34 DD. So, as you can see lots of stretching out. I just had baby # 3 so they (my boobs) are slowly deflating, hehe. Is there anything (besides surgery) I can do to plump them up at all. I don't care about size, I just hate the sagginess. Plus it doesn't help my husband teases me about them calling them mashed potatoes, pancakes or saying I can throw them up over my shoulder, etc.). I buy super great bras but they only go so far.
Thanks!
Thank you all for your kind words and support. I should clarify that my husband isnt this superficial person who is being super cruel and mean to me. They are comments that are said when the subject of my boobs are in the conversation (usually bc its me complaining about them). He says it in a joking manner trying to cheer me up... he just doesnt realize he is teasing me about a sensitive subject. He thinks he is being funny with the comments not that he really thinks they look like pancakes.
My husband wouldn't DARE tease me about my deflated breasts or he'd have a pan upside his head! Just kidding. Kinda.
I don't know about perking up your boobs, but it would perk up my attitude by informing my husband that if he ever made a comment like that again, the only breasts he'd be touching is the chicken he'd be having for dinner. Forever.
Sorry for the lack of actual help.
if you feel like it (you don't have to do it now) research on small implants, they go a long way and they are not slutty but they sure will turn some heads...hubby warned, you'll see how he'll stop laughing!!!
I'm usually a big advocate of non- hubby bashing but I have to say it: He's a real jerk for saying that.
Outside of duct tape and surgery, no, you'll never get the girls perky again. Sorry love.
I'm sorry to say, surgery is pretty much the only fix. (That I personally know of, anyway!) I would knock my husband upside the head, if he teased me about that. He isn't the one who had to be pregnant, so he should respect that your body birthed those children!!!
The first order of business is to tell your husband that he is never to say anything like that again. Ever. It's destructive and verbally abusive. I don't say that lightly but he has absolutely no right to make these kinds of abusive and cruel statements and pass them off as "jokes".
Unfortunately, surgery is probably your only option. Sounds like a lift with small implants would get you what it sounds like you want. Research the procedure, visit at least 3 surgeons before making any decisions.
tell your husband that his peter is saggy, small, and next time he puts it in--ask him if it's in yet. next time he's naked, ask him if he thinks it's really cold in the room, and when he asks why--look down and shrug and say "oh, no, nothing" and walk out of the room.
GR!!!!!
AND do not go under the knife for him--if you do it, make sure you are doing it for you. with his attitude, once you "fix" that, he will find something else to complain about and before you know it you will be heidi montag.
(I call mine my dog ears - a term I stole from my Mom. That sort of sense of humor is completely ingrained in my family (nuclear and extended)). I try to focus on the parts of my body that still look good and try to appreciate my youth while I have it. Gravity isn't going anywhere and my age seems to move in one direction only...so I may as well love "what I got" while I have it! So, I guess, self acceptance is the only real tip that I have and try to use. And, I bet you look great. Heck, even women who haven't had kids will be affected by downward migration at some point. Just part of aging, I suppose.
I have one daughter, who I breastfeed for 16months and I also had small breast before pregnancy(32B) and when I got pregnant they were 32DD!! SO i now have saggy and stretched out breasts!! I went out and bought myself a great bra, Victoria's Secret Miraculous Push up bra(adds to cup sizes!!) Now that doesn't do anything for me in the nude, but whatever only me and the hubby see them. You need to tell him to stop teasing you unless he's gonna pay for your surgery!!!
BOO! to your hubby for making you feel bad!!!
I really don't know about something other than surgery... I got an augmentation because I couldn't figure it out. : )
ETA- I had my augmentation after my daughter was born, but long before my son was born. Original size (before daughter) was a 34 barely B/full A. Got pg, went to a full D. Got the saggy, fish eye look. Got augmentation to a 34 D (I have the short stocky body that the D looks appropriate on). Got pg with son, went to a 34DDD + (i stopped buying bras & a 34E was not adequate anymore) and back to my 34D and they still look great.
Mine still perk up in bras but I would love for them to be up to my chin than my knees as I have had 3 babies too my boobs are still a 36D but after weight loss after pregnancy they go down to a 38C but increase as I gain weight back to original size they are fullest when breastfeeding.
My husband has never made comments about my breasts other than he likes them & doesn't that hurt YES i'm in pain when I had nots all over due to medications I was on & had to stop breastfeeding my 2nd baby they were HUGE but took the natural process to let them dry up.
If money were no issue I may have surgery to repair all the dislikes about myself.
Somewhere in side ourselves we have to love ourself accept ourselves for who we are.
Yay for motherhood!! I wish I knew a way to stop the sag, besides bras.
My hubby jokes about it with me too. But thats just the way we are with eachother. Its never out of anger or to hurt eachother. He always finds a way to cheer me up when I'm feeling ugly or cranky :)
The Secret of Victoria has some wonderful pushups, but they do get stretched out over time and if you do not get them on sale-they are expensive. Also I use Vanity Fair bras, they have the push up (Age deifying) back support bras that you adjust the strap to lift them up!! Shame on your husband, he helped making the ta-tas look the way they do!
