D.P.
Would she be interested in writing to a soldier? My son did that last year in first grade and the kids really enjoyed it!
Here are some websites that should be able to help you:
http://www.anysoldier.com/
http://www.soldiersangels.org/
http://www.adoptaussoldier.org/
http://www.supportasoldier.org/adopt.htm…
http://www.operationadoptasoldier.com/
http://www.mysoldier.com/
http://adoptaplatoon.org/new/
http://www.operationmilitarypride.org/ (this site is just awesome, they have tons and tons of ways to adopt or support a soldier)
http://www.booksforsoldiers.com/
http://www.americasupportsyou.mil/Americ… (another really, really, really good site to find a pen pal and other info)
http://hometown.aol.com/adoptasoldierusa…
http://www.50degree.com/custom/index.cfm…
http://www.treatsfortroops.com/foster