J.S.
I know where you are coming from. Both my husband and I work full time, but somehow, kids, house, groceries, bills, errands, etc. all fall onto my plate. He doesn't understand why by ten o'clock at night, the only thing on my mind is sleep. I feel bad because I know that he feels like he is getting ignored, and I guess he is. One thing that we do is every year, his shop has a Christmas party at Rafferties. The hotel next to it, offers attendees discounted rates on the hotel rooms, so we save up for about 6 months before hand, and stay in the penthouse suite for the whole weekend of the Christmas party. We leave the kids with Grandma and Grandpa, and just spend time together with the two of us. This is about the only thing 'romantic' that we do together, so I really look forward to it every year.