J.K.
Yes, completely cut out dairy, even cheeses, for several weeks and see if that doesn't work on it's own. 60% of ear infections are viral so antibiotics don't work, and in fact harm your child's overall balance in his system. Try heating olive oil and freshly pressed garlic until it just barely starts to bubble, then remove from heat, strain, and let cool until just warm. put drops in both ears (after letting it get down into each one) providing ear drums are not ruptured at the time. if they are, rub the oil around it, behind it, etc. You can also use breastmilk inside if you have a source for it! That is really helpful. If you do introduce dairy again, you may want to consider only raw milk. Regular milk is not only unneccessary for good bone health, but actually increases our calcium needs and is not good for the body, despite what the dairy industry would have us believe.
Also see a good chiropractor (dr. griffin- ###-###-#### on soledad canyon) who can make sure he is aligned well for drainage. He likely needs a good probiotic (Jarrow is a good brand) to rebuild his bacterial flora. open capsule and mix with applesauce. i'd also put him on a good fish oil supplement for kids (nordic natural strawberry).
oh, and i echo the sentiment to stay away from OTC meds, especially fever reducers! if his body isn't able to fight off the sickness, i.e., get a fever, than the virus, etc., will grow and become unmanageable. I won't consider medication unless my kids' get a fever of 104.5 after talking with naturopathic doctors that i know. fevers are good because it means the body is fighting to get better. our bodies know what to do to heal themselves and do best when left unmedicated or altered.
you poor traumatized dear! so sorry to hear you've had to go through all this....
hope this helps!
J.