R.R.
A.,
Hey there - hope you are having a good day with your 2 boys (yikes!!) I don't know of a counselor to recommend - although I would highly suggest finding a Social Worker. I used counseling for serious (suicidal)depression (a learned behavior). I can't speak highly enough of the experience - I honestly would not be here had I not gone to counseling. I spent nearly 2 years total with my counselor. Please feel free to share this info w/ your sister...she has so much to gain for herself!! And for you - keep up the good work! I never would have started counseling if it hadn't been for my husband's gentle pushes. You are doing so much good for your sister - just be gentle and patient. If she is depressed she probably isn't thinking she is worth the effort/trouble/expense of counseling. Just remind her how loved and valued she is. Good luck to you both!
R.