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this is the one recommended to me by my lactation consultant for its slow flow.
As a mother who failed to nurse her first (who also refused the breast) and practically killed myself trying to nurse my second (who had a weak suck), let me start with the most critical bit of advice first:
Go see a professional lactation consultant (likely provided through the hospital she delivered at) right away! I cannot stress how important that will be. She will likely have a good bottle recommendation for you as well.
Pumping and bottle feeding is something many of us have had to do. Its no joke, it doubles the work of feeding the baby. But if exclusively BF baby is what she hope to do, she needs to pump at every feeding if she wants to build up to a supply for it. 8 times a day, every three hours around the clock. I had to do this and it took three people, me, my mom and my husband to pull it off. Your daughter will need lots of support if this is going to work out. Eventually you can drop the night pumping and ideally you will get baby on the breast more and more with the right help and tactics and gradually get off the pumping. But while you are working through the problems, she needs her milk production stimulated every three hour.
Also, it takes a good 72 hours for any tactic you try to really start to work. This is why you don't want to take this persons advice and that person's advice, try it for a day only to give up and try something new. See a professional and follow their instructions.
I personally gave up because I could not keep up with the round the clock pumping and hoped to compromise with some breast milk and some formula, but sadly, baby just hated the breast, I had no support to pump day and night, and the whole thing on my first baby was like standing on a sinking ship. I feel for your daughter. There are supply issues that are hard for any woman to work through, but a baby who hates the breast is an obstacle on top of an obstacle.
If it does not work out here are two things I can offer having done it both ways. Bottle feeding is a bonding experience too. Lots more eye contact that breast feeding, and just as tender and sweat. And breast feeding is not a bonding experience if its not going well. Not at all, so let it go if you need to.