Recommendations for Good Upright Pillow for New Mother

Updated on September 10, 2012
S.C. asks from Dallas, TX
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My sister just gave birth to her first child and had to have a c-section at the last minute. I want to get her a pillow that will allow her to sleep upright or at a slight angle making it easier to get up to feed the baby, but I want to find a pillow that is comfortable enough so she can rest.

Has anyone used a pillow that they'd recommend?

She was thinking about getting a wedge, but I think it's still too low to be comfortable while the c-section cut is healing and I think she'll still have to use her ab muscles to get up. I've seen a few pillows on Amazon.com, but the reviews are mixed. Some say the pillows are smaller than they thought based on the photo, or they say the pillow is nothing like the photo. I don't want to send her something that she ends up tossing.

Thanks in advance for any recommendations.

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So What Happened?

Thank you all for the suggestions. I had a c-section 8 years ago and was going on my experience of needing lots of support in the first weeks after my daughter's birth and not having help at home to get me up/down (my husband had to go back to work almost immediately so I was home alone). Fortunately her husband will be home for a while. After sharing all the responses with her, she's decided to get a wedge and several pillows to help her if she needs them. I know each person is different, but her experience and pain so far sounds very similar to mine, which is why I wanted to get something to help her when she returns home. I had a nice chaise to lie on (angled end for good back support), but she does not have a similar piece of furniture. My bed was too uncomfortable and I was worried she'd get home and find the same thing, but not have a back-up option like I did. Thanks again for the suggestions. Sounds like basic pillows might be sufficient.

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K.P.

answers from Dallas on

I've had two C-sections. She doesn't need a pillow. Laying flat is the best thing for her to heal. If I didn't have help getting out of for the first 4 or 5 days, I would roll out of bed. Just roll out and let yoru feet hit first and then push up to stand up. After a few days or so she needs to start sitting up herself though so she will heal properly. If she stays hunched over to walk or to sleep, she won't be stretching her muscles out good. As far as a gift that is a pillow....The boppy pillow is great for breastfeeding, reading in bed and later for the baby's tummy time or sitting up. Very mulit functionional pillow! Oh and keeping a pillow under her knees with her knees up will help her sleep if she is a back sleeper. Sleeping on her left side is good for healing and easier to get up every 2 hrs to feed the baby.

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J.Y.

answers from Chicago on

I had three c sections. I didn't need anything special after the first. After the second I slept in a recliner for a few weeks before being able to lay down comfortably. After the third I slept in a recliner for a week and then on the couch after that. Four months later I still sleep on the couch as my back hurts horribly if I lay in bed for more than a few minutes. I guess it totally depends after each surgery.

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S.H.

answers from Honolulu on

I have had 2 c-sections.
I slept fine.... and I breastfed, using a "Boppy Pillow."
It is GREAT.
It is also great for using it to prop up magazines or books on your lap to read. It is very useful, beyond just for breastfeeding.

I nursed, not lying down, but in a comfy sofa type chair/loveseat.

One thing is, you cannot avoid getting up or down, or from using your ab muscles when you have a c-section.
BUT... for myself, I used a cane... to help me get up.
And I liked using it, for that reason.

Per pillows for her and beyond what I mentioned, any comfy pillow, can be used. Or, try those long "body pillows" that even Costco has, and it is not expensive there.
The thing is, it is very hard, to know what is comfortable or useful... for a woman who had a c-section... UNLESS she tries it our herself personally or, has chosen it for herself... or said, she needs a pillow like that.
Personally, I never actually "needed" an "upright pillow" for myself, though I have had c-sections.
I found that using my leg muscles or upper body, in lieu of directly using my abs, helped to somewhat avoid that ab pain from surgery. But I really loved, using a cane to help me get up or to get around.

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M.S.

answers from Portland on

I've also had 2 c sections and I used my husband or my mom to get up. I slept in my bed with a lot of king size pillows. This worked great because I could move them around, but then they sometimes moved on their own. I don't know, maybe one of those pregnancy pillows that wrap around you so that you can sleep on it. I know that I had to use a pillow to support my tummy/abs because I am on the larger side and gravity was too much for me.

The second time I had a hospital bed. The doctor told the insurance company that it was necessary for my recovery from major surgery because that's what a c section is. It was prety great! I put it in the living room and since it went up and down, I could adjust where I wanted to be so easy. And, its just so hard to find the comfy spot.

I hope she heals quickly, and you are a very thoughtful sis.

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A.S.

answers from Dallas on

Looks like you got a lot of answers already, but a husband pillow is awesome. Something like this: http://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/product.asp?SKU=18548526
I had a c-section after twins and used the pillow all the time, still use it to read/work on my bed, and my girls play on/with the pillow all the other time. A small pillow to press on the incision site when getting up (or laughing) or to put under the boppy for added support, could also help. Good luck!

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D..

answers from Charlotte on

I don't know about a special pillow (sorry!) but tell her to put one under her knees for sleeping on her back. That will help. If she is a side sleeper, one between her knees will take some of the pressure off too.

Hope you find what you're looking for!

Dawn

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