L.L.
Hi C.!
OMG I went through the EXACT same thing when my daughter was 9 ( which was just last year) I don't know if this will help, but our family Dr. Recommended child dose of melatonin at bedtime at same time as bedtime snack. You probably know that melatonin is the chemical our brains produce naturally around bedtime that makes us naturally sleepy, but does not " drug " your son. It really helped us as MANY children do not produce enough melatonin. Your son seems to have a lot of anxiety. If he won't say why or doesnt think he does, the melatonin will help by giving him the natural rest he may need. Please remember this is not a " drug ", you are not " drugging " your son, all of his natural reflexes will remain as dominant as natural sleep (like waking up to use the bathroom, etc.. )and he will wake up if you go in to wake him ( like for example, God forbid an emergency like fire, example. ) it sounds like a lot of anxiety, which can be diagnosed as " unspecified anxiety " if he doesn't verbalize it, or if he really doesn't know what he is anxious about. I truly wish you all the best, as I just came through this. .. and don't forget, he will be o.k. and this too shall pass! All the best to you and your son!